Here is a sample of the traditional order of the wedding reception including grace, toasts and speeches.
• Welcome by the MC
• Emcee introduces the wedding party as they arrive
• Grace – if appropriate
• Entree is served
• MC or Bride's Father proposes Loyal Toast (only for very formal weddings)
• Main course is served
• Dessert and coffee is served
• MC introduces the speaker who will propose the toast to the Bride and Groom
• Toast to the Bride and Groom - by family friend or relative
• MC introduces the Groom (and Bride)
• Groom (and Bride) responds and toasts the bridesmaids
• MC introduces the best man
• Best man (and chief bridesmaid) responds
• MC introduces the speaker to toast the bride’s parents
• Toast to the parents of the bride by family friend or relative
• Response by bride's father
• Toast to the parents of the groom by bride's father, family friend or relative
• Response by groom's father
• MC asks if anyone else would like to speak
• Best man or chief bridesmaid reads messages
Then
• First dance
• Cutting of the cake
• Throwing of the garter or bouquet